11 year old is preoccupied with ual questions and boys?

If you feel uncomfortable watching her, then maybe you shouldn't. Life is complicated enough without adding more complications. And quite frankly, this girl doesn't know her limits yet when it comes to men. So, if she does this with your boyfriend again, you need to tell her to stop and punish her, then talk to her parents. She will keep doing it if she thinks she's getting away with it. And remember, she's probably not meaning to hurt your feelings, I don't think her parents taught her about the birds and the bees yet, so she's experimenting. Why not educate her on how she should really act? On how to be a lady? It sounds like self distructing behavier, and if it's not stopped, I see this girl getting pregnant at 13. But like I said, if you feel uncomfortable watching her, and aren't up for this sort of responsibility, why bother?? And yeah, I would be mad too!! Good luck!