Is is healthy to be with a woman who is insecure and does not trust you enough to let you go anywhere?

I am so frustrated and stressed right now. I will make this as bief as possible. I can honestly blame myself for moving in with her knowing how she is. We had a falling out and split up then we started talking again. She moved to Texas which is nicer and has a better job market than where we was staying, so I moved down there to stay with her. Being that I am unemployed and she has more income right now she pays the bills(I know thats th problem right there ha). She blacksmails me all the time threatening to kick me out without giving me the opportunity to collect enough money through my unemployment to move first. All I ask is that I can go out by myself every blue moon, but she does not trust that at all. I think she knows I am a good looking guy and is scared of me leaving her for another woman. Well I can't get into everything, but I am considering just asking my family for financial help to get up out this situation to look out for our best interest. Plus she is BI-POLAR and flips out all the time and last time we broke up was because she filed a false police report on me for domestic violence when she was the one throwing blows. I messed up for telling her I would call the police as she stormed out the house then deciding not to and someone influenced her I think to call them and make up a story to get her out of trouble even though it resulted me going to jail. I should have never got back with her. I am just not feeling the relationship that much and I am tired of her blackmailing me all the time to use to her advantage. Being that I am on UI it is hard to get approved for a lease and I just may make a move(When she does not expect it, cause when I tell her I want to leave she tells me to get out the same day and I she is not understanding enough to let me wait till I collect the money for me to move out of state). I know that she loves me in her evil ways, but I don't think it's right. It's called financial abuse which I learned is a form of domestic abuse. But when a women commits these acts then it is OK and not abuse. Someone give me some advise PLEASE!!