Do you ever pity bigots for ruling out getting to know some people because of their ethnicity, uality etc?

Bigotry is wrong. However, if someone chooses a lifestyle that goes against my beliefs I won't compromise those beliefs. If they ask me what I think I would tell them in a cordial and respectful way. I won't shun that person and I will be neighborly and lend a hand when there is a need in that person's life. Just because I don't believe that they are right doesn't mean I treat them wrong.